Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book. Sample Book Insights: #1 If you intend on criticizing a man, make sure it’s done constructively. A man with a healthy amount of self-esteem can usually handle criticism, but that doesn't mean he'll always enjoy it. Constant criticism will put your husband or boyfriend on the defensive and he'll develop the habit of not sharing his innermost thoughts, feelings, desires, and ambitions with you.