Erotic Asphyxiation and Spreader Bars Say I Love You

I trust him to put me in the spreader bars, to bind my wrists, to take total control. After a night out and a frantic need to be alone, we make our way to a fancy hotel and he does his bidding. Trying new thrills, he chokes me in the hot tub, and plunges my head beneath the water as he ravishes me. Am I wrong to offer him my trust?