Men Love Abuse is delivered in the no-hold-barred, honest voice that Smalls is known for and will guide women from the moment they meet a man through the complicated dating phase. Smalls' philosophy is: "be a bitch and you will get hitched." Men only understand strength, so if you want that guy, you better "abuse" him. Never the one to promote violence, Smalls uses the word abuse as a metaphor to mean stop treating guys so nice.