Excerpt From Summary of Bruce Bryans's Never Chase Men Again
#1
Being a challenge to meet and keep interested in can help you ward off lazy men, who are more likely to want to be with someone who won’t cause them any trouble. It can also help you attract better, ambitious men.
#2
The best way to let a guy know you’re interested in him is by not being the one to initiate contact. If you’re always the one to text, call, or visit him, you’re robbing him of the space he needs to miss you and pursue you.